The Top 5 Reasons to Become an Egg Donor in Canada
There are several genuinely compelling reasons a woman chooses to become an Egg Donor. Egg Donation is a great solution for women who are incapable of conceiving with their own eggs.
A woman may not be able to conceive with her own eggs for a number of reasons. These issues may include:
- Anovulation (Ovaries do no release eggs and can not be stimulated to do so)
- Hormonal issues
- Damaged ovaries
- Premature menopause
- Production of immature or deficient eggs
The discovery that her eggs do not work can leave a woman with the hope of becoming a mother feeling devastation and lost. Loosing the ability to have a genetic child is something that needs to be mourned and recognized as a significant loss.
However, once the dust settles, there is still hope in this seemingly impossible situation. That hope is provided by Egg Donors.
Here are 5 Key reasons to become an Egg Donor in Canada:
- Helping those in need
- Effect positive change
- Learn about yourself and the process
- Reimbursement for related expenses of $6,500 – $8,000
- Raise awareness and become an advocate
Helping People in Need
This is possibly the most rewarding reason to become an Egg Donor. Imagine being able to help a woman or a couple that has just been told that are not able to conceive a child. For some people, becoming a parent is a lifelong goal, something they have always dreamed of. Being told they are not capable of doing so is devastating news for most.
Egg Donors have the power to turn this despair into hope. The Intended Parents you could be helping will be infinitely grateful to you for this incredible gift.
Effecting Positive Change
You will literally make a positive impact on the world. You will be helping to create a new family, which will have a lasting impact on those involved and society as whole. You will be helping bring equality to those that wish to have a child, but their situation doesn’t allow it.
Learn About Yourself
Egg Donation is a good way to learn some important things about yourself. Before becoming an Egg Donor, there are a series of tests your will need to go through to ensure you are a suitable donor. The results of these tests will give you information about your own fertility and other biological facts. You will gain some new knowledge about the reproduction process and your body in general.
You will also likely learn some things about your own character in the process. You may be surprised by your capacity for empathy and altruism.
Although it is illegal in Canada to profit from selling eggs, donors will be fully compensated for expenses incurred in the egg donation process. Related expenses compensated for Egg Donors in the Fertility Match program are $6500+ and include expenses such as time off work, childcare, pet care, prepared foods, housekeeping, note taking and other healthcare expenses.
Raise Awareness and Become an Advocate
One of the great benefits of Egg Donation in Canada is increasing the awareness of infertility in Canada. Roughly 1 in 6 couples in Canada are affected by infertility. In addition, there are all the homosexual couples and single aspiring parents that are not biologically capable of conceiving a child.
That leaves a large number of Intended Parents with no choice but to look for help from others. This is where the gift of an Egg Donor can help, assisting those in need and advocating for fertility equality for all!
To learn more about becoming an Egg Donor in Canada, contact our Fertility Consultants at Fertility Match Canada. We have the experience and the compassion to help you make the right decision.
Being an Egg Donor in Canada is one of the kindest and most generous things you can do. If you have ever thought about becoming an Egg Donor or are considering becoming an Egg Donor, we hope this blog can help you decide if it is the right decision for you. It is a big decision for you and the Intended Parents you are helping.
Here are the top 5 five things to consider about becoming an Egg Donor in Canada:
- Do you meet the physical requirements
- Do you meet the mental requirements
- Lifestyle Requirements
- Choosing a safe and legitimate agency
Physical Requirements for an Egg Donor
Certain physical requirements must be met in order to qualify to become an Egg Donor. Overall, Egg Donors should be in excellent physical health. Some of the required physical characteristics for Egg Donors include:
- Candidates need to be between the ages of 21 and 32
- No tattoos or piercings in the previous six months
- Regular menstrual cycles
- No history of physical hereditary disease or illness
- Healthy and proportionate height to weight ratio
- Ability to withstand regular injections
Mental Requirements for an Egg Donor
Various psychological and mental requirements must be met in order to qualify to become an Egg Donor. Egg donors must be of sound mind, free of cognitive or mental impairment. Some mental prerequisites will include:
- Willingness to be subjected to psychological assessment
- No history of psychological conditions or traumas
- Mental and emotional stability
Lifestyle Requirements for an Egg Donor
Lifestyle choices will all be taken into account when determining if you can qualify to be an Egg Donor. Some lifestyle, behavioural, and environmental factors to be looked at are:
- Canadian citizenship with active provincial health insurance
- No smoking, drug use, or alcohol abuse during the course of donation
- Agree to a background check
- No travel to areas effected by the ZIKA virus in the previous six months
- Ability to accommodate appointments with lawyers and doctors
- Able to come into the fertility clinic when necessary
- Can take time off work and arrange care when away from family
- Willingness to take Fertility Medications
- Cannot have participated in more than five prior egg retrieval cycles
Commitment Required for an Egg Donor
Becoming an Egg Donor in Canada involves a serious commitment on your part. Keep in mind that the Intended Parents you will be helping have likely been through a long period of adversity and disappointment. Egg Donors need to be fully devoted to the entire process. This will entail keeping an open and flexible schedule, taking required fertility medications and seeing the whole process through to completion.
Choosing a Safe and Legitimate Agency
When making a decision of this magnitude, you will be sure to want to get involved with a credible and caring agency that has your needs in mind as well as those of the Intended Parents.
FertilityMatch.ca is an intelligent and practical agency choice for prospective Egg Donors in Canada. Founded by a former Intended Parent and two-time Surrogate, we have your best interest at heart and have a genuine desire to make this experience a positive one for all of amazing people we work with.
Becoming a Surrogate Mother is a very personal choice. The reasons why a woman chooses to be a Surrogate Mother vary. I chose to be a Surrogate Mother to help another woman who couldn’t conceive become a mother. When starting out on your journey as a Surrogate Mother, take time to think about who you are meant to help. Is it a single parent, a heterosexual couple or a same sex couple?
Once you decide who are wanting to help as aSurrogate Mother, you will begin to “date” potential Intended Parents. This is a very important part of the process. Just like dating a potential romantic interest , you quickly learn what you are looking for in this relationship.
Are you looking for someone who is wanting the same amount of contact as you are? For me, this wasn’t my birth story. This story belongs to the Intended Parents I worked with and to their babies. I was just the person who was lucky enough to birth them into this world. I wanted Intended Parents who shared that outlook. My Intended Parents were at all my appointments and were in the delivery room. I also wanted to make sure that parents cut the cords of their babies as my husband and I had done for ours.
How do you feel about selective reduction or termination of pregnancy due to birth defects in the fetus? This is a very important subject and one that makes you look inward. I needed to find Intended Parents who would take any number of children that resulted from this Surrogacy. I was not in favour of selective reduction for multiples. With that being said, I felt that I could not decide what another person could live with if it was determined that the fetus had a birth defect. In that case, I was willing to terminate if the Intended Parents chose.
Intended Parents are looking for certain things when it comes to their Surrogate Mother too. They will be dating you as much as you are dating them. I have spoken to couples who said their Surrogate was to only eat organic foods, or would refrain from exercising. I even spoke with someone who said they didn’t want their Surrogate to have an epidural during birth. And while those aren’t the people I chose to work with, there is a Surrogate out there for them that will work with their choices. It’s all very personal.
The main thing for me in my journeys was the relationship I built with my Intended Parents. I did not know them ahead of time. We were complete strangers who took the time to build an honest and open friendship. I wanted to feel like we could talk about anything. My Intended Parents and I became support systems for each other through the ups and downs of fertility treatments while fulfilling their dreams to be parents.
Watching First Surrogate and Intended Parents Meet under Fertility Match
When I was a Surrogate Mother, one of the most exciting things was meeting my Intended Parents for the first time. We were already matched and had emailed and chatted on the phone numerous times. But meeting in person was truly like a first date. Everyone is nervous to meet the other party. The reality of the situation sets in. The Fertility Match journey is beginning.
I was honoured to be part of this excitement recently. Our wonderful intended parents T & J met their surrogate L and her family for dinner and I was there with my family.
I can only describe this as a large (and loud) celebration. Like old friends coming together. There were lots of hugs and laughter. This is the joy of a Fertility Match.
This is the moment where and intended parent and Surrogate Mother bond begins. With this journey our warm, loving surrogate mother L wants her family fully involved. Her children are very excited for their mother to be the change for other people. L is not only giving an wonderful gift to T & J, but she’s being an incredible role model for her children. As I sat there watching T & J chat with L and her husband, I knew that their journey together is going to be an incredible experience for everyone.
This is our dream at Fertility Match. To make this connection for couples in finding the right Surrogate or Egg Donor and changing lives in a positive way. It brings tears to my eyes even just thinking about what the future holds for so many intended parents who choose Fertility Match to help them with their journey. Call us anytime if you have questions about our service. We’d love to hear from you.
Co-Founder of Fertility Match Canada